I havewantedtofilmthehomewarefocusedcumin A videofor a while, So I'm inmylivingroom.
Thisroomisalmostfinished, butnotquitefinished.
Got a couplemoreweekstowait, But I thought I wouldchangethingsupanddoit a littlebitmorerelaxedandjustsitinherewithyouandgothroughthehundredsoffmessagesthat I'vehadon.
I haven't evengonethroughThio.
Lookattheonesthat I gotloadsoff.
So I'm justgonnaworkmywaythroughand I'm gonnagothroughandjustpickoutquestions.
Usually, I wouldgothroughbeforeandpickouttheones I thoughtwerereallygood.
And I wantedtoanswer, We'rejustgonnafreestyleandwe'regonnatalkforaslongasweneedtotalk.
Andthenwe'regonnapicktheverybestofthebest.
Basically.
So I'm gonnabetellingyouabsolutelyeverythingaboutmykindofhomewhererenovationfirstkindofrenovate a blehousejourney, I guessontellingyouthegod's honesttruthaboutthewholething.
Sotheglovesareoff I willtellyouabsolutelyeverythingabouthowit's been, what I'velearned, thetruth, thewholetruthandnothingbutthegoddamntruth.
Sowithoutfurtherado, I'm goingtoyoupickupwhere I leftoffwithmyquestions.
I haven't beenabletosaywhatmyfavoritefurnitureshopsarefor a while, because I didn't knowwhattheywere.
Now I know I foundsomereallygoodkindofnicheonesandalsosomemainstreamonesandthenalsoplacestoget, like, muchbetter.
Priceus a lowbudget, midtieronthatkindofthing.
So I wouldsaylowestbudgetwisetofindreallygooddecorativepiecesondhefabricsandthingslikethat, likecushionsandthrows.
I wouldsayplaceslikehatethemhomeareamazing, Larrydo, Although I feellikeLauraDuespricescanbe a littlebitthereaswell, soit's a littlebitmoremidthio.
Amazing.
Also, I wouldsayZarahomeis a reallygoodplacetogetsomedifferentpiecesfor a reallygoodprice.
Moremidtier, I wouldsay, isyourLarrydoJohnLewisonAlsonatural, though, thatyoucouldbe a littleexpensiveaswell.
Andthenuptherewithmysoul.
Higherendone's definitelyOka.
Ohmygoodness, absolutelyamazing.
OkaNeptune.
There's somereallydifferentondhesofpiecesthathave a littlebitof a storybehindthem.
I lovegoingshoppingplacesliketheoldflighthouse.
Wewentthererecentlyand I fellinlove.
It's nearBester.
Ifyouhave a chancetogo, pleasego.
Becauseitisthemostmagicalplaceondhe.
Theownersareamazing.
I justloveitthere, so I willlinkallofthoseplacesinthedescriptionboxdownbelow.
Ifyouwanttogocheckthemoutbecause I reallylikethosecases.
Bytheway, thatquestionwasfromKittyRoseRattle.
That's why I nextup, whothisquestionisfromhattiedotpoppy.
Underscoreandshesays, Haveyouwastedanymoney?
Thatis a goodquestionbecause I thinkthatpeoplearequitequicktothinkthatifyoudon't likesomething, youfeelthatyouwastedand I don't actuallyfeellike I'vewastedmuchmoney.
Therearesomepiecesthat I think a casethatwas a mistakeondhe.
I'velearnedfromit, soitdoesn't reallyfeellike a waste.
I justthemainthingthat I feelwasthebiggesthindrancewasthatweweretryingtomakegoodofsomeoneelse's likehome.
Initiallyonthatwasthethingthat I wish I hadn't done.
I wish I'd justgoneinandchangedeverythingthat I wantedtochangefromthewordgoonDDEthatwouldhavebeen a lotbetter.
But I don't generallyfeellike I'vewastedmoneybecauseevenif I feellike I boughtsomethingthat I didn't like, alwayseithersellitonorpainterandturningintointosomethingelseonDDE.
Yeah, so I don't I never I don't reallyfeellike I everhadthatfeelingofLatin.
I'vewastedmoneytherebecauseitneverfeelsliketheendofthestoryjustbecause I don't likeit, ifthatmakessense.
So I reallyliketofollowaccountsthat I canseehowthey'reworkingtheirspaceandthey'relivingintheirspace.
Soanyway, tocuttothechase I lovefollowingbrickbybrickonInstagramShe's alsolikemyspirithumanwhenitcomestoshopping I lovehersomuch I loveSarahJaneCopeStakeObviouslyyouknow I lovethatgirlsomuchCotswoldInteriors I lovethatpagesuchlikeKaswell d vibesandcountrylikemoderncountrylivingwhichthenbringsmeThio I lovefollowingtime.
Timeisactually a placethatyoucanvisitintheCotswoldson.
Thatwastheplacethat I wentthiowhen I realizedwhatmyinteriorstylewaasBecause I walkedinthereanditfeltlikehome.
Andthat's thefirsttime I'vebeentheresince I had a homethat I couldkindofplayaroundwith.
Andsowhen I walkedinthere, I wasjustlike, Oh, thisisit.
Sothat's onethingthat I wouldsayit's difficulttosay, butfromtheroomsthatwearewherewearewith, I wouldsaythatOhgosh, I feellikemyfavoriteroomforwhere I gottohavefunwoulddefinitelythedownstairscloakroomorwhatpeoplesometimescallthedownstairstoilet.
I callitthedownsideSpokeroom.
I don't knowwhy I'vealwaysthoughtofthat, butthat's where I gottoputsomewackywallpaperonthewallsandreallygoalloutwithmypanelingondhe.
Somereallygorgeous, likeArtDecolightingon.
I lovedit.
So, yeah, I'd saythat's myroomwhere I'm like, Oh, I gottohavefuninthere.
Now I'm guessingthatshemeans, havewedoneinthishouse.
What's themostexpensivethingthatwehavedone?
Themostexpensivethingthatwehavedoneisprobablythestaircaseishavingthosedonewas a huge, hugeexpense.
Butsoworthitnow, nowthat I lookatthatareaoff, itlooksincredible.
I loveitsomuch, eventhoughit's notevenfinishedpainting.
ItstartsbeingpaintedonMonday, sothere's still a lotofworkthere, butjustlookingatitmakesmesohappy.
Themostexpensivethingthat I didwasmydressingroom.
Thatwas a huge, huge, hugeexpenseondhe.
Ifyou'reifyouwatchedallofmyselfhomevideos, youknowthat I didn't reallyenjoytheprocessondhe.
I had a companythat I reallyjustdidn't gelwithondhe.
I wouldn't recommendtoanyone, and I alwaysgetpeoplemessagingme, saying, Didyouusethiscompany?
Wouldyourecommendthembecause I don't wanttousehim?
Ifyouthinkthatmydressingroomwasmadeby a certaincompany, gowiththatanddon't usethem.
Butthat's notwhat I wouldsay.
Yeah, I foundthemreallydifficult, anditwas a reallyheartbreakingprocesson.
I wouldsaythatthat's theonethingthat I regretisthatitalmostleaveslike a bittertasteinyourmouth.
Thefactthatsomethingthatyoudreamedoffbeingsoamazingandsoperfectandyousavedupsomuchofyourmoneytohavetohavetheprocessissounenjoyableondheliterally, it's there's bitsofitthataren't finishedbecausecommunicationjustbrokedownsomuchwiththatcompanythat I justcouldn't havetheminmyhouse.
I couldn't I couldn't speaktotheguy.
I couldn't doanything.
So I tookitonthechinon, justacceptedthatthiswasthewaythatitwaason, didn't allowthemtocomebackbecauseevengottothepointwherehewassendinglike, legalletters.
Whichissohardbecause I'm notlikesomeonethatjustpicksfaultsinthings, youknow, it's a fullypayingcustomer.
I'm tryingtotellyouwhat I'm nothappywithyou.
Youwon't acceptwhat I'm nothappywith.
Andso, yeah, thatwiththat.
But I obviouslycan't speakaboutthatontheInternetbecause I'm frightenedtofestivalbecause I don't wannahaveanykindoflegalbattleonmyhands.
So, youknow, whenyoudomessagemeand I don't answer, thatwillbewhyondhe, secondofall, youknow, whenyoukindofwanttoforgetaboutsomethingatthesametime, youdon't wantanyonetoeverelselikeanyone, anyoneelseevergothroughthatbecausewhenit's thatsupposedly, like, somagicalanditwasn't on, it's a badthing.
So I wouldn't wantanyonetogothroughthatStatham's anyway.
Thatwasthebiggestexplanationonthatever.
Charlottebrandhasaskedanyadviceonbudgeting.
There's actually a lotofquestionsaboutbudgetinginhere.
I'm bustingsuch a difficultonebecause I feellikepeoplewantmetogivethemtheanswertohowyoucan, like, affordallofthenicethingsthatyouwant.
Andthat's whatcomeunderbudgeting.
But I mean, there's amazingApsellatthemomentthatallowingyoutobudgetaccordingtowhatyou'relikebudgetisbasicallyondhesoftwarethathelpedyouorganizeyourbudgetsandyourinteriorprojects.
Inthatway, forme, wehave a budgetsetfor, like, perroomorperprojectonDhe.
I wouldprobablysaythat I likeOka a littlebitmorethanNeptunebecauseitoffers a lotoffvarietyandyoucanget a lotofdifferent, reallydifferentpiece.
IsthereNeptuneisverymoderncountry.
Minimal, I wouldsay.
Soyoudon't necessarilyget a lotofstatementpieces.
TheirwaresfromOkawowsisyoucangetsomeamazingstatementpiecesthatreallybring a lotofcharacterintoyourhome, so I wouldgowithOkabutNeptuneholdsmyheartaswell.
Oh, thisone's a bitmoreof a genericone, but I thinkthatit's reallyimportant.
So I hopethisonehelpsitoffpeople.
Itsayshowtostyle a smallapartmentandstilllookluxuryandsophisticated.
Soyoumightremembermyoldhome.
Wemovedinon.
WepaintedeverythingwhiteonDDEhad a lotofgrayinthere.
If I couldgoback, I wouldprobablyintroduce a lotmoretexturetoit, becauseonething I realizedmuchtimesatinoneofmymostcolorfulroomswithalloftheblue.
I'm muchmoreof a texturepersonthan I am a wildandwackycolorpersonondhe.
I prefertointroducedifferenttexturesandtonesratherthanlotsofdifferentcolors.
Soin I'veseenLeonifromOakMature, shehas a reallybeautifulbutquitesmallapartmentinNottingHillonDDE.
Woollsthrowscushions, soit's stillverysoftbecause I wouldprobablysayinmyoldhome I wastoomonochromatic, likeitwastoocoldbecausetherewassomuchgrayandsomuchwhiteonDhe.
I don't likethatfeelingofcoldness.
I likewarmandcozyvibes, and I thinkthatLeoniehasreally, reallyhitthenailontheheadisnotquitescanty, minimalvibesinherapartment.
So I haveanAmazonstorefront, which I willlinkinthedescriptionboxdownbelow.
And I putthemajorityofmycoffeetablebooks, but I havehundredsofcopytable, butliterally, theyareeverywhereinmyactualcoffeetablethathasthesecutelittlecubbyholesthatyoucansee.
I'vegot a lotofthenaturalhomecoffeetablebooks.
There's onefromAaron.
There's mywedding, Burkeandthingslikethat.
Thenthere I canseethat I'vegotthisishomeoninperfectPerfectinPerfect.
I'vegottheFrancoisNarscopied a bookthat I gotinBoraBora.
I'vegotVanityFair 100 years.
I'vegot a lotofcoffeetablebooks, sotheywillbeonmyAmazonstorefront a linkitdownthere.
Andi, youcanshopallofthecoffeetablebooksthere, whichmakesitsupereasyandalso a fewlittletrinketsthat I havearoundmyhome.
I got a fewthingsaround.
If I haveokay, thisperson's questionit, I can't readthename.
So I wouldsaymyfavoritepartofthisentireprocesshasbeendiscoveringmystylebecausesincethatmoment, discoveringeverything, I likeknowingwhattobuy, beingabletoseethingsonandseehowthey'regoingtolookinthehomeandbeingabletoenvisionthatandjustbeingabletobuythingsinstantlyratherthancomingandourringabouteverything.
That's whatcamefrommediscoveringmystyle, andit's madeeverythingbecome a lotmorecohesivefromthatpointonwardsinthehouse.
Sothere's stillthings I mayneedtoadjustforthemtofitmystyle, butitfeelslike a weighthasbeenliftedandfromthatmomentreallystartedenjoyingtheprocessofnotmore.
I wasn't enjoyingit.
I wasjustfindingitreallyconfusing, andnothing I waschoosingwasgoingandcreatingthefield I wanted.
Sonowitjustkindoffeelslikeeverythingmakessense.
Myleastfavoritethingabouttheprocessistime.
Ittakesforevertodoeverythingfrompainting a roomtogettingthepanelingin, justbuyingfurniture.
And I'vehadtoordersomenewonesthatweren't instockatthetime, andtheyweretheones I wanted.
But I orderedthemfromOkatonewsunloungersonthecoffeetable.
Yeah, so I'vebeenwaitingandit's supposedtobe 25 degreestomorrow, and I havetosendmysonarejustbag.
Butthat's oneofthefrustratingthingsthat I findisthatthingsarrive.
And I thinkthatthatiswhy I kept a lotoffurniturethat I didn't loveanddidn't feelrightatthetimeon.
That's whytoday I'vebeensobrutalwhen I waslike, No, ithastogobackbecauseitdoesn't workbecausewhen I wouldbuyconsultations, I findthemand I putthemintheirplaceand I'd belike, own, I'm notsure, butwe'llsee.
Andthenastimegoesby, youlike I shouldjustsendthatbackbecauseheactuallyisn't right.
Andit's liketheconsultablethat I havethere.
Now I lookateverysingletimeand I'm likeIt's perfect.
Ali's veryvisualinthesensethat, likeifheseessomethinghedoesn't likestraightaway, hehastosaythathedoesn't likeit, but a lotofthetimewithhomeinteriorsthings.
Ittakes a lotoftimeforthewholefeeloftheroomtocometogetherondhe.
I havetokindoftellhimtobepatient, andit's sodifficultwhen I'veworkedreallyhardtoplan a roomondhehimtojustcomeinandseethecolorcoloronthewallwouldbelike, No, I'm notpleased.
Hewaslike, It's Magnolialike, but I'm hopingthataseverythingcomestogetherintheroomsandheseesallthelayersonthetexturesandthewarmthoftheroomcometogether.
He'llchangehismind.
NextupwehaveThisisfromcreamypatternsonitsays.
Doesyourinteriorstylechangelots?
Andhowdoyoustaytruetoyourstyle?
I thinkmyinteriorItmayhaveseemedlikemyinteriorstylechanged a lotinthebeginningbecause I hadnoideawhere I wasgoing.
I wasblind.
I didn't knowwhat I like.
I didn't knowwhatmysileWaasbecause I'veneverhadtheabilitytohave a styleonDhe.
I think I'vesaidthis a fewtimesbefore, but I'veneverlivedin a housethathassomuchopportunity.
I havesomuchtodointhishouse.
I coulddowhatever I wantedinhereonDhe.
I wasspoiledforchoice, but I didn't knowwhattochoose.
But I wantedtobechoosingthingsthat I wantedtobemakingitmyown.
But I wasstrugglingwithhow I wantedittoactuallylookintheend.
Noweverythingchanged.
I thinkthatthat's comingacrossinmycontent.
I thinkthatyoucanseeNow I haveconfidenceondhe.
I'm abletomakedecisionsthat I speakwithconfidencethatevenwhen I'm juststarting a consultableup, I didn't have a clueaboutstylinganythingbefore.
Andnow I'vefoundmystyleonDhe.
Now I couldgodownintomyofficeandyeah, itwon't takemelike, fiveseconds.
Itwouldtakeme, like a wholeday.
But I startwithonelittlecubbyhole, andthen I doanotherone, andthenitjustallsortscometogether, and I lookatitand I'm like, Wow, welldone, me.
Soyeah.
Now I'vedefinitelyfoundmystyle, and I feelsomuchmoreconfidenton.
That's maybewhatwastheissueinthebeginningisthat I didn't reallyknowwhat I wasdoingondhe.
Itwason a learningprocess.
But I thinkthatit's importantthat I'vedocumentedthatandsharedthatwithyoubecause I didn't knowitwassohard.
Andi, I thinkthatgrowingup, watchingchangingroomsandseeingalloftherenovationsthatpeoplehavedoneandtheydocumentedonlineorwhatever, youdon't necessarilysee a lotofthechangesandthethingsthattheydon't likeandthingsthathappenevenwhenyou'relikecompletelygutting a houseandyouputsomethingtogetheranditdoesn't work.
I follow a fewpeoplethathavehugemultiple £1,000,000 housesontheyinmassesofstuff.
Andthentheylivedinitandthey'relike, No, it's notright, It's gottogo.
It's gottochangeAnd I thinkit's importantthatmaybethesethingshaveshowndespitethebacklashthat I mighthavegottenfromshowingthethings I'vechanged, which I don't thinkis, Youknow, relative, I don't reallythinkit's thatbad.
Why I'vechanged.
I knowthatsomepeopleseemtolatchontothat, and I getquitedefensivewithitbecause I don't feellike I'm doinganythingwrongbychangingmyconsoletablethreetimesorfourtimes.
Alltimes I'm learningAndi.
I'm enjoyingtheprocessandthisismeenjoyingmyhome.
But I alsowantyouguystoknow, watchthiscontentandthinkthateverythinghasbeenanabsolutewalkintheparkbecauseithasn't ondhe I'vemadeinsexondhe.
I putthemrightonDhe.
I havelearned I wouldn't wantyouguystothinkthatyoujuststartrenovatingyourhomeanditallgoesswimminglybecauseit's justnotalwayshowithappens.
I'm surewedohavethat.
Lucky, then.
But I don't know, I didn't havethat.
And I wouldn't wantyoutothinkthat I'm notheretoputout a perfectrepresentationofeverything.
I'm heretojustshowyouhow I didit, andthat's it.
Okay, nextup.
IsMcCalebBoydon?
Shesaid, WhatwouldyousayYourstyleisforyourhomeon?
I think I'vementioneditbefore, butjustsay I probablysaythatmystyleismoderncountry, likemodernEnglishcountryismyvibe.
So I justlove a lotofnaturallight, but a lotofnaturaltexturesOndalawwouldondhenothingtosortofminimal.
I actuallylove, likedressingthingsondhelotsofcushionsandthrows.
Andyes, sothatwouldbemystyle.
Yeah.
Oh, Jessicavoicehasasked, Doyouwishyouwaitedsothatyouhad a morecohesivevisionbeforehestartedrenovating?
I thinkthat's a really, reallygoodquestionbecause I thinkthatpeoplewouldthinkthat I maybethinkthat I wish I waitedonintermsoflikebuyingthingsonwastedtime.
I wish I'd waited, but I thinkif I hadwaited, I neverwouldhavelearned.
Sotrialanderrorhasbeen a hugepartofthison.
Everytimethat I hadsomethingarrivedanditdidn't work.
Itmademetroubleshootastowhyitwasn't workingonDhe.
Onlythroughunderstandingwhatworksandwhatdoesn't workhave I beenableThioidentifywhensomethingdoesn't fitinmyhome.
So, yeah, I definitelywouldn't changeanythingthat I havedoneinin a senseoflearning, butin a senseoftime.
Yeah, itwouldbegreattohavenotwastedsomuchtime, butit's a catch 22 because I neededtodoittolearnJenny, Roscoehasasked, Didyouworrythatpeopleonlinemaynotlikeyourideas?
I thinkif I worriedlike a lotaboutwhatpeoplethoughtonline, I wouldnevershareanything.
Sowereallylikethesethreepicturesuphereonitdefinitelyfilledthewallspaceon, madeit a lotmoreinterestingupthereonweputsomeofourlovelyweddingpicturesthatweloved.
Peopletellyouthatyoucan't putcertainweddingpicturesorlikefamilypictureslikeincertainareasofthehome, and I'm likeyouputyourpictureswherevermakesyouhappyon.
I wassoshockedwhensomeonesaidthattome.
I waslike, Youmean I havetopickandchoosewhere I putthesepictures?